“For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by mankind, but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless our Lord and Father, and with it we curse people who are made in the likeness of God.” – James 3:7-9 (ESV)
Our words are powerful things; they can be used to either share the light of Christ with those around us, or to spread the venomous intent of our sinful natures. It’s very often not an easy internal conflict to resolve, but through the guidance and Grace our Heavenly Father offers us, we can make our speech reflect His glory and goodness.
Hi, I’m Phil Malmstrom, a.k.a. Phather Phil. I’m self-employed, father of two wonderful young men, an ordained minister who delights in spreading Jesus’ Message of Hope and Love, a science-fiction junkie, an aspiring photographer and above all that one of God’s Children who rejoices in His Blessings each day. 








So many times the things we say are the biggest cause of our regrets. If we could only learn to control our tongues…
I’m so thankful for God’s Grace and forgiveness for those times when we are too human and let our flesh have control.
Our words have the power to build up or tear down. Great encouragement to watch our words.
There are so many great verses about watching your tongue, I think God wanted us to really get this! Love this one “The soothing tongue is a tree of life, but a perverse tongue crushes the spirit.” Proverbs 15:4
Amen! Every day, during my time with the Lord, I ask Him to bless the work of my hands, the thoughts of my mind and the words of my mouth. It is of vital importance to tame our tongues. In many ways, the tongue can be more destructive than the sword. Great post! Blessings!
P.S. I actually created coasters from your Tuesday post, with the Scripture from Joel. Just need to cure them. Thank you, for being in our lives!
Very true. This is something that always comes up with the teens I work with.
Phil,
So many times someone has spoken a kind word to me at the exact time I needed to hear it. Our words hold such power and we can never go wrong by speaking kind words they could change someone life.
Blessings to you Phil.
Taming the tongue is a daily battle for some of us. May our words truly bring Him glory!
Blessings to you, Phil!