May 25, 2011
Posted by PhatherPhil on May 25, 2011 | 10 comments
Dear Lord; Happy Wednesday Father!
You know Father, I love the surprise Blessings and little bits of insight You present me with…
Last week, Shannon and I were digging through our basement in search of items to sell at the community yard sale, when we came across a box we hadn’t seen before. It really didn’t shock me that there were boxes we hadn’t opened down there, as after my mother and grandfather passed away, the contents of both houses were packed up and split between my brother Chris and I. Shortly thereafter, Shannon and I moved and the untouched containers moved as well.
Anyways, we opened the box and were presented with a number of items which had obviously come from my grandfather’s house. At first glance, there didn’t seem to be anything of specific note, until we found a small cloth bag nestled in with some old silverware. Inside the bag we found around 25 pieces of broken, tarnished spoons and forks lovingly wrapped and put aside. The patterns and styles of the pieces were varied, they were worn and damaged, and none of them seemed to fit together in any way but for some reason they had been segregated from the rest and carefully put aside all the same. As we looked over them in greater detail, we realized that they all had one thing in common; they were all marked “Sterling”.
A quick Internet lookup confirmed our suspicion; those broken, worn, tarnished pieces were hidden treasure. 🙂
Early this week I made some phone calls, and found a local metals dealer who gave us an excellent price for the pieces. As this has been a financially difficult year, this was a truly amazing Blessing to us and came at the perfect time.
Then tonight Father, I realized the parallel in this story…
By ourselves we’re broken, and tarnished, and damaged and yet, through Your Grace we’re made precious, and wanted and valuable. Like my grandfather did with those unwanted spoons, You see beyond our outward appearance and brokenness and nurture the hidden treasures inside us.
Heavenly Father, I thank You for the Blessings You Grace us with each day. Although we are truly undeserving, through Your Mercy we’re drawn into Your Embrace and made whole. I pray that, even if only for a moment, we’re able to see ourselves through Your Eyes and find that Hidden Treasure that You have placed inside each of us. Amen.
~Phather Phil
May 24, 2011
Posted by PhatherPhil on May 24, 2011 | 16 comments
Dear Lord; Happy Tuesday Father!
As you know Lord, at the beginning of the year instead of making New Year’s resolutions, I chose to take part in an exercise intended to provide a more focused perspective on the year ahead. The concept was to pray intently for Your Guidance in choosing a single word to serve as a primary component of my life in the coming months. And although I came up with a number of words that I personally felt fit areas I needed improvement on, You repeatedly placed the same word in my heart over and over…
Accept.
Well Father, I may not have completely agreed with Your Word Choice when You impressed it upon me, but looking back over events of the last five months I can honestly now say… Ok, I get it.
Here are some of the ways Your Word Choice has presented itself in my life:
I’ve come to Accept that I can’t fix everything, and that I need the assistance of others (this one’s been tough for me in many ways).
I’ve learned to listen for Your Guidance more carefully, and Accept the direction that’s given.
I’ve Accepted that Your Assistance to us comes from many places and in a variety of forms, and that our true Blessings may not always be those most obvious to us.
I’ve Accepted that the path I’ve laid out for myself may not necessarily be the one You Intend for me, and I’m excited to see Your Will unfolding in my life.
It appears I had more that I needed to Accept than I thought I did… 🙂
Heavenly Father, I thank You for the direction and guidance You Bless me with each day. As I pray to You each morning; Please help me make decisions today that best glorify Your Will, and guide me to be Your Hands and Feet to serve those around me. Amen.
~Phather Phil
May 23, 2011
Posted by PhatherPhil on May 23, 2011 | 22 comments
Dear Lord; Happy Monday Father!
Today Father, my heart grieves for the mother of one of Your Children who lost his battle with cancer yesterday, and has left us to join You in Your Kingdom. His earthly trials are over Lord, and he triumphs in Your Presence, and for that my heart rejoices. His mother, family and friends however have a piece missing from their lives that will mourn his passing nonetheless. I pray for Your Healing and Comfort to all those missing Dorian’s light today Father, and ask that You keep them in Your Loving Arms so they may know the joy he’s experiencing with You now.
Searching for words of comfort Lord, I came across a poetic prayer written by Edgar A. Guest that touched my heart so deeply that I wanted to share it here:
A Child of Mine by Edgar A. Guest
“I’ll lend you for a little while
A child of mine,” God said,
“For you to have the while he lives,
And mourn for when he’s dead.
It may be six or seven years
Or twenty-two or three;
But will you ’till I call him back
Take care of him for me?
He’ll bring his charms to gladden you
And, should his stay be brief,
You’ll have his lovely memories
As a solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay,
Since all from earth return;
But there are lessons taught below
I want this child to learn.
I’ve looked the whole world over
In search for teachers true;
And from the throngs that crowd life’s land,
I have chosen you.
Now, will you give him all your love
Nor think the labor vain?
Nor hate me when I come to take
This lent child back again?”
I fancied that I heard them say:
“Dear Lord, Thy will be done.
For all the joys Thy child will bring
The risk of grief we’ll run.
We’ll shower him with tenderness,
We’ll love him while we may.
And for the happiness we’ve known
Forever grateful stay.
But should Thy angel call for him
Much sooner than we’ve planned,
We’ll brave the bitter grief that comes
And try to understand.”
Amen.
~Phather Phil
P.S. For those who haven’t been following Dorian’s struggle, his mother has a page at CaringBridge.org which can be found here.
May 22, 2011
Posted by PhatherPhil on May 22, 2011 | 8 comments
Dear Lord; Happy Sunday Father!
Last week Lord, the boys and I were sitting down together watching an old episode of Star Trek: The Next Generation. Riker and a couple other crewmembers had beamed over to a derelict ship and were exploring, when I looked over and noticed that Aidan was covering his eyes. When I asked him why, he told me “There’s a scary part coming… The music changed.”. Sure enough, the background music had changed to an ominous tone, and seconds later the first alien body was found. That got me to thinking…
What if we had our own “background music” in our lives…
Wow… Wouldn’t that be cool! We could tell when we were headed for dangerous or scary situations, or good news was coming. We’d have warnings of upsetting events, or that what we were doing was destined for a joyous outcome. Through that musical guidance our lives could be focused and directed so we knew what we should do with a better sense of clarity…
And then I realized Father, that we already have that… We have Your Voice.
The “music” of Your Spirit is always there with us; It soothes us, warns us of self-destructive behaviors, comforts us and leads us where our true path lies.
“Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, “This is the way; walk in it.”” – Isaiah 30:21 (NIV)
Such wonderful melodic guidance it is Father, we just need to learn to listen for it in our daily lives.
Thank You so much for being such a Wondrous Conductor, guiding us from one scene to the next in perfect harmony with Your Purpose. I pray that we may all hear Your lyrical prompting each day, and that our Divine Background Music leads us straight to Your Feet. Amen.
~Phather Phil
May 19, 2011
Posted by PhatherPhil on May 19, 2011 | 6 comments
Dear Lord; Happy Thankful Thursday Father!
Following last week’s example Lord, I’m going to add to the list of Your Gifts that I’ve been especially grateful for this past week. It’s funny, but since last week’s posting I’ve been finding myself making mental notes as I go through the day; “Wow… This needs to make the list this week!”. I love having the mindset of “filing” all those wonderful Blessings You bestow on me so I can write them down later on. 🙂
Anyways Father, here’s my list this week:
16. Children who remember to say grace at dinnertime… Even when I forget.
17. A caring, God-loving veterinarian who understands what our “furry family members” mean to us.
18. Hunny responding well to the medication after only two days.
19. Good friends who go out of their way to help our family.
20. Live worship messages streaming from Crosspoint.tv on Sunday nights.
21. A staff who “rolls with the punches” in uncertain times.
22. Finding a Bluetooth headset for my phone that fits comfortably and works properly, (finally!)
23. Spring rainstorms that lull me to sleep at night.
24. A wife who likes mowing the lawn.
25. The smell of warm cinnamon bread baking in the oven.
26. Exploring the beauty and wonders of nature with the boys.
27. My hacked Nook Color Android Tablet.
28. Breakfast for Dinner.
29. The online Bible at YouVersion.com which I can access from my PC, my phone and my Android tablet.
30. Chunks of fresh strawberries in my fruit slushie.
Heavenly Father, as always this list could go on, and on, and on… Your Blessings surround us all each day, and I just love connecting with You further by putting them in writing.
Amen.
~Phather Phil